Monday, August 3, 2015

The Narcissist's Child: The NO CONTACT letter

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The Narcissist's Child: The NO CONTACT letter
Monday, April 20, 2015

Shape-shifting molecule tricks viruses into mutating themselves to death | UChicago News

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Shape-shifting molecule tricks viruses into mutating themselves to death | UChicago News
Friday, March 27, 2015

Ridding yourself of the Narcicissistic "Mother"...Finally: Unique ptsd in abused children

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Ridding yourself of the Narcicissistic "Mother"...Finally: Unique ptsd in abused children
Saturday, March 14, 2015

Why Are the Poor More Religious? – TheHumanist.com

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Why Are the Poor More Religious? – TheHumanist.com I am not saying I agree or disagree with this article. As a matter of fact I have delved...
Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Manipulative definitions of Narcissistic Mothers

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Mothers with Narcissistic Personality Disorder When you think about it, where better could a narcissist get such a ready, biddable, vulne...
Tuesday, July 15, 2014

The Drama Triangle | The Shame Generator | Co-Dependence and Being a Victim

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The Drama Triangle | The Shame Generator | Co-Dependence and Being a Victim

2 | Narcissism Uncovered | Sam Vaknin Videos

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2 | Narcissism Uncovered | Sam Vaknin Videos

1 | Inside Narcissism | Why Narcissists Do What They Do | Sam Vaknin

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1 | Inside Narcissism | Why Narcissists Do What They Do | Sam Vaknin

Cluster B Personality Disorders | Abusive Personality Disorder | The Relationship Destroyers

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Cluster B Personality Disorders | Abusive Personality Disorder | The Relationship Destroyers

Identifying A Loser | How to Spot Losers | Am I Dating A Loser?

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Identifying A Loser | How to Spot Losers | Am I Dating A Loser?

Save YourSelf | Help for Abusive Relationships | Men and Women

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Save YourSelf | Help for Abusive Relationships | Men and Women
Monday, July 14, 2014

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Saturday, May 3, 2014

Up against a narcissist

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http://www.gbfamilylaw.com/premarital-and-post-marital-agreements/the-mentally-incompetent-party/

My self-doubt has been replaced by a trust and acceptance of all of my feelings and intuition. It is because of having a Narcissistic mother that I grew up using my intuition to figure out how to survive and I had to finely attune this empathic intuitive gift that I now use to help others.  It is as if it was all meant to be so I would learn 1)how valuable compassion and love are to myself and others and 2) how horribly damaging it is NOT to have compassion and love as a highly sensitive child.  I am grateful for all that I have learned. I have learned from my family that Narcissistic mothers can manipulate their children into bullying her other children–often the innocent, kind, compassionate, highly sensitive child is the Scapegoat (SG) or Golden Child (GC) depending on whether they are obedient to her demands or not.  She will sweetly get you to confide in her so she can find your Achilles heal and then insidiously use it to control you.  She can be a brilliant actress of love and caring around her husband  or your siblings and save the stabbing criticisms said with a smile for when you are alone and least expect it. She feeds her other needy children with lies about the  SG and rewards them when they do her bidding. I was the Golden Child first and saw first hand how she turned me against my siblings by talking terribly about them.  Then it all switched when at 25 I stopped being obedient and she slowly turned them against me.  I didn’t realize she was doing this until many years later–we were all low contact then, seeing each other once a year or less and all being on their good behavior.  As my children got older and their schedules got more demanding and I had to be even more assertive about when we would visit, I soon realized she had systematically turned them all against me and made herself out to be the victim of my so-called selfishness. Narcissists are dangerous people and I feel so fortunate to finally know the truth and to be freefrom the Narcissists in my life.  I feel passionate about educating others on the dangers of Narcissists, especially as they prey on highly sensitive people who seem to be almost like targets of their remorseless lust for destroying dreams and confidence. Their lack of compassion, lack of guilt or remorse, and endless blaming others for all that is wrong in their lives are the red flags that help me to be able to spot a Narcissist a mile away.

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https://hopehealing.wordpress.com/tag/no-contact-with-parents/
Thursday, May 1, 2014

Dictionary of NM

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http://www.daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/narcissistic-mother-dictionary.html
Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Society indirectly supports NM

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http://www.daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/mothers-with-narcissistic-personality-disorder.html Narcissistic Mothers Most people neve...
Saturday, April 26, 2014

Unique ptsd in abused children

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http://healthland.time.com/2013/04/30/abused-children-may-get-different-form-of-ptsd/

PTSD from childhood abuse

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http://healthland.time.com/2013/04/30/abused-children-may-get-different-form-of-ptsd/

Keep Your Ground

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Keep Your Groun d- An adult child of emotionally abusive parents who has finally set up boundaries is disrupting the landscape of the adult...

The Invisible Scar

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http://theinvisiblescar.wordpress.com/2013/05/10/ending-the-toxic-relationship-and-giving-yourself-time-and-space-to-find-yourself/
Sunday, April 20, 2014

The Narcissist's Child: Gaslighting—the narcissist's crazy making tool

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The Narcissist's Child: Gaslighting—the narcissist's crazy making tool : The term “ gaslighting ” is defined by Wikipedia as “...a ...
Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Myth #1 : Midwest people are not nicer than Californians

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There s a saying that Midwest people are nice. I must say they are not nicer than Californians. They are "nice" to "like-mind...
Friday, January 17, 2014

Memoires of a Midwest California girl

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My research study tonight of going to a bar alone  in a small Midwest town is more benign than I imagined. I chose this over spending time a...
Monday, December 2, 2013

Ridding yourself of the Narcicissistic "Mother"...Finally: Ten myths of ME

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Ridding yourself of the Narcicissistic "Mother"...Finally: Ten myths of ME
Saturday, November 2, 2013

Great sentences

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http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/sentences-that-can-change-your-life.html